Five Things to Avoid When Love Dating an Eastern European Lady
This issue will be interesting for each guy who is going to marry a Ukrainian bride. Here are 5 most common mistakes men make with Russian Dating. The first tip is the most important; others are also very important.
1. Giving her money. Do not give money to somebody who you met on Internet site. You should know that an honest lady would not ask; she has enough proper pride. Again, she has managed to live for more than twenty years without your “help”. Why does she need you now? Any Russian woman who asks you for money is just trying to deceive you. A Russian girl does not even consider you two to be in a “real” relationship until you have seen one another in person! Would you give money to a girl from your country that you had just met? Think about it. It is simply not clever and may bring you trouble (and makes the ladies think it is simple and gives them reasons for the similar behavior).
2. Not asking her questions. You are looking for a help mate, not someone to simply pass the time. Ukrainian ladies are honest (for the most part) and they expect the same attitude. Besides, if you do not put her questions to find out more about her, her family etc… she will soon decide that you are not serious. Then she will leave you, or just see what she can get out of you! If you are really searching for a wife, you need to ask her many different questions! Not only put a lot of different questions, but put them several times in various ways, just to see if you get similar answers By the way it's a great way to protect yourself from a scam!
3. Giving her wrong pictures. Don't send her photos of your house or other welfare measure. Otherwise, you will attract the wrong type of girl. An honest former Soviet Union lady is more concerned about your heart than she is about your house and your car. If you concentrate on your things, she can decide you are a shallow and insecure person. Focusing on your attainments only seems to work on american women, the most shallow and windy girls in the world! Eastern Europe is not the US, there is no need to impress these women with possessions! Show them your sensitive side, your preferences, how you think and feel and you'll find a thankful life partner.
4. Not preparing properly for a visit. Did you know that in order to bring her to the US as a fiancee, you have to go to her country first? Yes, it is the only way she can get a USA visa. An Eastern European woman, if she is serious, will want to meet you. You must be ready to travel to her country in the future. A lady will generally give you about 6 months to tell her you will visit. After that a few more months get ready. Make her wait longer period she will think you are not serious and probably move on to someone she would consider is more reliable! So be ready physically and monetarily.
5. Not having an emergency plan. It's a huge error! If you actually go to Eastern Europe, you never know what will happen. You sure will get a few unexpected results! No matter how many letters you have exchanged with your lady or how many phone calls you have made, once you see her in person, everything will be different. It's possible that you two look at one another and understand it is not going to happen. Your plan B will help you in this case. And do not make a journey only for one lady (unless you have already met). Meet two or three. Also try to have good relations with at least one of the local agencies in the city you are going to. Write down their address and phone numbers. Later, if things don't work out, you will have a chance to call another agency and meet other girls.
Well, try to follow these rules and you will surely have luck with russian girl